I’m scared about tomorrow.  Tomorrow I have to get a feeding tube put in.  But let me back up.

My liver function has been declining.  But now my GI doctor thinks that my liver problems might be from the oral antibiotic they had me on for my kidney infection, so I of course stopped that.  (My kidney infection seems to finally be better at least.)  With the liver my doctors want to wait 2 weeks to see if the levels normalize with me off the antibiotic.  If not then I’ll need a liver biopsy to determine what is causing it be it Autoimmune Hepatitis or something else, and we’ll go from there.

Over the last couple days, I’ve tried to eat clear liquids again and all I get is more pain and nausea.  I tried for the last time today, and I still had the same horrible nasuea and pain.  So tomorrow I’m going to have a feeding tube put in.  We are going to keep me on tube feeding for a WHOLE MONTH!!!  Why?  To really give the pancreas a chance to rest and calm down.  That means no eating for a month!!!  Ugh.

In the past, we would have just upped my dose of Prednisone to calm down the Autoimmune Pancreatitis, but now the side effects of the Prednisone are causing me too much harm and my doctors are afraid of raising it even more.

So tomorrow I will get a Nasojejunal Tube (or NJ Tube) placed.  It will go up my nose, down by throat, through my stomach, and into my small intestines.  It will allow me to get nutrition without aggravating my Autoimmune Pancreatitis.

So why am I so afraid?  Well for one thing you have to be under anesthesia for it.  Secondly, last time I had a feeding tube placed I woke up afterward into a nightmare.  I had somehow been exposed to latex which I have a life threatening allergy to.

I woke up feeling like I was drowning.  I couldn’t breathe and I thought I was going to die.  I kept coming in and out of consciousness, but each time I awoke there were more doctors and nurses around me.  They couldn’t stabilize me in the Recovery room and had to move me to the ICU and put me on a machine to help me breathe.  I spent the day and night in the ICU recovering from the incident.

Since I found out that I was getting another feeding tube I have been having flash backs to the incident.  I am very nervous something similar will happen again.  Luckily the hospital is a lot more latex free than it was when this happened a few years ago.  But even so, I am having a hard time staying calm about it.

But if all goes well with the feeding tube, and I am able to tolerate the tube feedings well, they might be able to send me home from the hospital on Saturday.  If not, then I don’t know when I’m going to make it out of this place.

It’s already been 14 consecutive days and 20 total days that I’ve spent here in the hospital, but I’ve got to keep the faith!  I know I will make it out of here eventually.  In the meantime, my friends and family have been wonderfully supportive.  I owe them so much.  And when things are at their worst, I’ve been calling upon God to help me through.  He has been such a constant source of strength, comfort, and support.  I lived so long without God in my life, but now I don’t know how I’d get by without Him.

In the end, I just have to deal with things as they come.  Things are what they are, and I know that with my own inner strength and God’s help I can get through anything.  I could cry about it (and sometimes I do), but I’d rather laugh and make the best of things.  Because life is too short.

My growing collection of flowers from friends and family.

It’s a terrible thing to live in fear.  I make a point of not letting my fear overcome me.

When I was a very young girl a fear of guns ruled my life.  I was afraid of being shot wherever I went.  I never wanted to leave the house for fear of being gunned down.  I was especially afraid of going to McDonald’s because I had overheard on the news that a little girl was shot and killed at one.  But even as a 5 year old, I knew that my fear was irrational, and kept it a secret.  I eventually conquered my fear years later when I was forced to participate in riflery at sleep-away camp.  Afterward, I vowed I’d never let a fear rule my life again.

But fear still creeps up now and again.  And it has certainly crept up today.

Today my doctor told me that he is concerned that if we don’t stop and reverse whatever is wrong with my liver, I will end up in liver failure.  My declining liver function may be a result of either Autoimmune Pancreatitis or Autoimmune Hepatitis or both or something else entirely.

I am, frankly, terrified.  But I refuse to let my fear rule me.  As a child I was so embarrassed of my fear that I suffered in secret silence.  But today I reached out and told all my friends the news and let them be there for me.  They more than rose to the occasion, and I am so grateful for them.  And now I am blogging it out.  Sometimes it makes it feel so much better to get it all written down.

I may still be afraid, but it doesn’t control me.  I can use coping mechanisms like these to control it instead.

Image by Jody Art via Flickr

Image by Stewf via Flickr

17

The number of diagnoses I’ve accumulated so far… Sjogren’s Syndrome, Autoimmune Pancreatitis, Autoimmune Hepatitis, Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis, Cerebritis, Neuropathy, Autonomic Dysfunction, Fibromyalgia, Raynaud’s, Erythromelagia, IgA Deficiency, Asthma, Sleep Apnea, OCD, Depression, Anxiety, and ADD.

7

The number of years it took to be diagnosed with Sjogren’s Syndrome.

26

The number of years I’ve been living on this earth.

28

The number of medications I take

150

The number of pounds I’ve gained from Prednisone.

30

The number of pounds I’ve lost recently.

3

The number of pants sizes I’ve dropped recently.

8

My pain level right now.

17

How old I was when I when I last felt at all healthy.

3

The number of surgeries I’ve had… appendix removed, gallbladder removed, bladder stimulator implanted.

2

The number of doctors appointments I have next week.

13

The number of doctors I see on a regular basis.

0

The number of days I’m without pain.

Appearances can be deceiving with a chronic illness.  Looking at a person you usually can’t even begin to see what they are going through.  Sometimes even your doctor can’t see what’s right in front of them.  Sometimes you have to spell it out for them.  Especially when you have a lot of symptoms and medical problems, I’ve found it extremely helpful to bring your doctor a printed list summarizing your medical history and list of symptoms broken down by category.

This serves another purpose as well.  When you have an unexpected and most unwelcome flare of autoimmune pancreatitis pain, you can distract yourself by making it into art while you wait for your pain meds to kick in!

Head over to Wordle to try it out for yourself (and feel free to link me in the comments).

1. The illness I live with is:  Sjogren’s Syndrome, but I also have Autoimmune Pancreatitis, Autoimmune Hepatitis, Hashimoto’s Thyroiditis, Fibromyalgia, and Arthritis.
2. I was diagnosed with it in the year: 2007
3. But I had symptoms since: I was a small child.
4. The biggest adjustment I’ve had to make is: to life in a wheelchair.
5. Most people assume: that I’m too young to have this many health problems.
6. The hardest part about mornings are: waking up way to early in pain and never getting enough sleep.
7. My favorite medical TV show is: House, I suppose, but I don’t really watch it anymore.  I have a hard time concentrating on TV.
8. A gadget I couldn’t live without is: my mac.  It is my connection to the rest of the world.
9. The hardest part about nights are: trying to get sleepy despite the pain.
10. Each day I take 28 different medications. (No comments, please)
11. Regarding alternative treatments I: am only open to trying ones that have been shown to work in some sort of clinical trial.
12. If I had to choose between an invisible illness or visible I would choose:  an invisible one.  Since I’ve recently started using a wheelchair, my illness has become move visible and I long to look “normal” again.
13. Regarding working and career: I am currently on disability.
14. People would be surprised to know: that I don’t remember what “no pain” feels like.
15. The hardest thing to accept about my new reality has been: that I can’t just push through the pain and exhaustion without making myself sicker.
16. Something I never thought I could do with my illness that I did was:  travel for pleasure, but I recently went to an alternative reality gaming conference in Portland.
17. The commercials about my illness: don’t exist (which could be why no one seems to have heard of it).
18. Something I really miss doing since I was diagnosed is: hiking and other physical outdoor activities.
19. It was really hard to have to give up: my independence, but I’ve had to learn to accept a lot of help from others.
20. A new hobby I have taken up since my diagnosis is: scrapbooking.  I’m completely obsessed and even do it from bed when I can’t sit up at the table.
21. If I could have one day of feeling normal again I would: backpacking through Australia.
22. My illness has taught me: that happiness is where you make it for yourself.
23. Want to know a secret? One thing people say that gets under my skin is: “You just need to exercise more.”
24. But I love it when people: Call or email me out of the blue to let me know they are thinking of me even if I haven’t been up to hanging out lately.
25. My favorite motto, scripture, quote that gets me through tough times is:  Everything might not happen for a reason, but you can make a reason out of everything that happens.
26. When someone is diagnosed I’d like to tell them: that life isn’t over and that they will find ways to cope and adjust.
27. Something that has surprised me about living with an illness is: how much opening up and sharing about my illness has given me the opportunity to meet new people who in turn share about themselves.
28. The nicest thing someone did for me when I wasn’t feeling well was: lug all my scrapbooking supplies to me in the hospital, so I could take my mind off being there with my favorite activity.
29. I’m involved with Invisible Illness Week because: I hope by raising awareness people will have more sensitivity and empathy for the people in their lives with invisible illnesses.
30. The fact that you read this list makes me feel: hopeful that my sharing about my experiences will make positive difference.

Find out more about National Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week and the 5-day free virtual conference with 20 speakers Sept 14-18, 2009 at www.invisibleillness.com